Ten Bobsworth wrote:Appearances can be deceptive but you don't think he might be a bit of a TWERP, do you Sluffy?
He seems to be damaged goods if the reports from his last couple of clubs are true.
As for appearances, I've never been an avid 'follower of fashion' and certainly not of 'body art' so I probably miss completely the desire/need to be in that social vanguard.
I also have never been a big drinker and have stayed clear of 'chemical' and herbal 'stimulants' as I've always been happy as I am already, so again can not understand the need or desire to seek a 'changed' state of mind or personality from who I am naturally.
Maybe it is I that am missing something, I don't know - but I'm a happy little soul as I am and that's good enough for my contentment.
I sometimes think (maybe unfairly?) that those that go to extremes, excess drinking, drugs, 'neediness', looking for recognition/validation - are unhappy in themselves and seek to find 'something they believe they are missing' by artifically becoming someone they are not.
No one can sustain themselves by trying to be who they naturally aren't, obviously.
Maybe something traumatic has happened in their life that they seek to escape from but I think many/most just 'follow the crowd'.
If Maddison has demon's inside him then I hope he gets help to face them, if he's just another idiot who thinks he's somehow 'special' in someway or other, then yes he probably is more in the TWERP category.