Whitesince63 wrote:Sluffy, re 1085. Not wishing to include your long post in my reply I’ll just explain that it wasn’t someone’s dislike of my using the term I used to describe the French colloquially that disappointed me as much as considering what has been widely accepted for years for the French to be “racist.” which frankly is pathetic. It’s no more racist that Yanks for Americans, Kiwis for New Zealenders or Ozzies for Australians. There are certainly some terms such as Pakis, Chinks, etc which are certainly meant to be offensive and racist, which of course I would never use. Having worked with and lived amongst the French for over 40 years, I respect them hugely as a people and can tell you from 1st hand experience that they do not consider the term to be racist. Indeed, being one of the top 5 companies in France we had first pick of graduates who we used to accommodate at our training centre in London for two weeks each year. We referred to them as tadpoles and they loved it. Indeed, you want to hear some of the labels they have for us, which are equally to be taken in good spirit. I think we all know when a word or term is used as an insult but when we reach the point where that is misinterpreted as in this case, we have gone too far in my humble opinion. In your initial response to me, you recommended me not to be soft. Might that request not have been more relevant to the over sensitive individual who made a point of it in the first place?
The individuals involved, Natasha and Wanderlust (he had previously posted that you were stupid or some such) care little for what I may do or say and they are fully aware of what they themselves are doing and saying.
As far as I'm concerned you should all grow up.
I too have personal experience with the French and share your views of them but I've also met one or two bad ones as well.
Their colloquialism for us that I'm aware of was 'roast beef's'.
Fwiw I don't believe you, the French or even Wanderlust to be at all racist, I've simply requested that you no longer use the colloquialism's you (and Wanderlust previously) had on here.
I don't believe the request to be unreasonable and it certainly isn't onerous to comply with either.
We'd all be more than happy for you to return and post on here again but clearly that is entirely up to you.
Hopefully now we can in Boris's words 'all move on from this now'!
Hope so anyway.