T.R.O.Y. wrote:He pretends not to see my posts, so who’s not giving who a chance here? All I did was poke holes in his argument.
Everyone’s free to post whatever they want on here, I don’t care. But if you call people idiots don’t be surprised if they bite back a bit, I don’t think you need to be under 70 to understand that.
I'm not actually sure you did?
It looked to me that you construed something other from what he had said and went out of your way to poke holes in that instead.
Maybe that's why he didn't feel the need to reply to what you had been saying perhaps?
And yes no one likes to be called names on the internet or indeed real life - but in real life you do call people names and they don't mind, might even laugh with you because it is the tone and maybe even body language of how it's been said that let's you know it's meant in fun rather than as abuse.
Anybody really think being a called a blockhead or similar is meant as a serious term of stupidity? I see it more as a mild ribbing for not seeing the obvious in my view. I've been called a wanker, homosexual, and having a multitude of mental health issues and that's just been in the last week or so, do you think being called a blockhead is in the same leagues as those, I certainly don't!
I think if Bob wanted to tell someone they were stupid he's the type who would not mince his words and not use quaint and dated phrase like being a 'blockhead'.
As I said above I think there is a disconnect over how things said on social media by the likes of Bob are INTENDED and how in fact they are PERCEIVED by the recipients.
Maybe if he had said something like ' I don't think you are understanding my point here', or 'no, it's not what you think' he would have got little if any reaction back but by simple saying 'don't be a blockhead' he seems to have upset half the forum instead!
The internet doesn't really lend itself to things like irony or stuff said in humour so well at times and so probably best to stay clear of such things in general.
I simply think Bob's way of saying things are such that often seem to cause offense to some where it wasn't generally intended to be the case.
Simple as that to me - a sort of an unintended disconnect between generations if you will.