karlypants wrote: Sluffy wrote:
So much so that Karly (who really runs the site) had had enough and wanted it to end.
Jesus Sluffy! Don't put this spin on me.
I only wanted you to stop berating him as it had gone way past boring.
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Let us all face up to the reality of this.
I for my part am an honest and easy going person in real life - and I post as such on here.
I don't like lies and deceit and my professional career has basically encompassed just that as a Company Secretary - now more commonly known as a company Compliance Manager.
Here is a random Google link to a job profile for such a job if anyone is interested albeit I worked in the public sector.
https://www.prospects.ac.uk/job-profiles/compliance-officerI'm not stupid nor am I emotional, I fully understand people do tell lies and have their own agendas but basically, I'll inform people as to what things are in the areas to which I have many years specialist knowledge and let them go their own way after that.
I'm not here to change the world, if people don't want to check for themselves that something I have told them is true, then that's up to them and their own stupidity.
It is abundantly clear to all by now that Wanderlust has long standing personal issues which he is obsessive about. It is also abundantly clear that he can't face up to being seen to be wrong.
We all know he is obsessive in his dislike to everything Tory so much so that it is pathological and not rational in nature.
The site is not a platform for his personal issues.
I've never censored anything he has ever said over the years, but I have repeatedly pointed out the flaws in his opinions either by providing links to facts that completely contradict him or shown him how his bias and prejudice has warped his reasoning on the things he posts.
This in turn has led him to be obsessed with me which leads him to abuse and troll me.
This doesn't bother me in the least, it makes me laugh at how sad he must be to do so in fact, but these obsessions of his - his hatred of everything Tory, his belief of anything on social media that supports his views (which is almost always fake news which he never bothers to verify the truth of first before posting) and his pathological obsessiveness not to be seen to be wrong/ wum/troll me - and simply not move on with his life have now come to detrimentally dominate the forum and have done for ages.
I have for long while asked him to 'get over' Brexit as we can't turn the clock back no matter how bad it will be for the country.
Failing his desire to move on, I have pleaded with posters on here who may be 'friends' of Wanderlust to have a quiet word with him and ask him for the good of the site to move on with his life, which again has not happened.
I then asked the other mods to intercede and basically do their job to put an end to this issue but that never materialised either.
I therefore took it on myself to start a rolling ban that ratcheted up by a day for every time it became clear and obvious that Wanderlust was deliberately trolling me - with the intent that he would sooner or later get the message into that head of his not to keep doing so.
However even that did not work, and the blindingly obvious conclusion was that this was never going to end until one or both of us left the site.
That point came with Karly's post a few days back asking Wanderlust and I to simply ignore each other.
That was never ever going to happen, would it?
Did anyone seriously think it could?
So that left me with no other choice other than to do what I did.
Clearly I would just have had most of you on my back if I continued posting after banning Wanderlust, so I've stepped away for a period in order to allow those that wish to post in peace on here without the ongoing issue that has dominated the site for months and years now.
What other solution could there have been?
I've asked you all to help bring this to an end and for Wanderlust to move on with his life but none of you did as such and Wanderlust has no desire to admit to himself that he's wasted years of his life being bitter and angry over something he has absolutely no control over and which has moved on without him and left him behind anyway!
What is the point of bringing Wanderlust back because he won't change and if he returns I will call out his bitterness and fake news as always - so nothing would have changed at all.
Of course you can bring back Wanderlust and ban me if you want but do you really want to read his misery, hatred and obsessions multiple times a day?
Maybe you do but seeing how only 63 responds to him anymore I doubt very much you actually do want to.
Anyway, it is up to you all to decide what you want to do but if you all want Wanderlust and I to return and believe things would now be different then I refer you to something Einstein once was supposed to have said.
'Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results'.
Have a nice day everyone, even you too Wanderlust.
Nothing personal on my part.
(And you really do need to move on with your life).