Glad your in one piece marra - must have been horrendous for you and the missus. At least you were able to access top quality care and now you know what the score is you'll be on meds that will keep you safe for many years to come so you'll be able to relax - but you'll have to watch your diet so no more steak puddings for you
May I ask that both you and Sluffy draw a line in the sand and you both walk on from it?
Life's too short being at each others throat all the time winding each other up.
We all enjoy both of you as a community and it would really be a shame if you both truly fell out.
Please? i'm asking nicely.